Showing posts with label Story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Story. Show all posts

Tuesday, 9 April 2013

A Teacher's Lesson

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Hello Mes Amis :)

My beautiful friend Nma sent this to me last night and I thought I'd share it with you too :))

It's a beautiful story....

"There is a story many years ago of an elementary teacher. Her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.
But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn’t play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X’s and then putting a big “F” at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child’s past records and she put Teddy’s off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy’s first grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners. He is a joy to be around.”
His second grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by hisclassmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle.”
His third grade teacher wrote, “His mother’s death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn’t show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren’t taken.”
Teddy’s fourth grade teacher wrote, “Teddy is withdrawn and doesn’t show much interest in school. He doesn’t have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class.”
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy’s. His present which was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag.
Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children’s laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, “Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to.” After the children left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.
Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her “teacher’s pets.”
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he’d stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor’s degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer—the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The story doesn’t end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he’d met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson’s ear, “Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference.” Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, “Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn’t know how to teach until I met you.”"
It’s O.K. to shed a tear or two. I know I did. 

Having a Good Day so far? I already am. 
Joyce Meyers is so amazing...Listening to her preach right now....

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XOXO


"Imparting knowledge is only lighting other men's candles at our lamp without depriving ourselves of any flame"- Jane Porter


Thanks a lot for reading :))

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

'GOOD CORN' :)


Hello :)
How’s your day so far?
Didn't feel so well earlier and just wanted to be home (Don't feel like working today)...Miss my bed and all (I know, I can be lazy sometimes)...Can’t wait for the 'Sallah' break though (and yum meat too J )
Anyways, I feel better now and thought I’d say hi as well as share this story with you (I’m a stickler for stories with good morals. U?). Hope you like it...
Image Source: sogood blog

There once was a farmer who grew award-winning corn pods. Each year he entered his corn in the state fair where it won a blue ribbon.
One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew it. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors.
"How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbours when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?" the reporter asked.
"Why sir," said the farmer, "didn't you know? The wind picks up pollen from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbours grow inferior corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I am to grow good corn, I must help my neighbours grow good corn."

The farmer is very much aware of the 'connectedness' of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbour’s corn also improves.

So it is with our lives. Those who choose to live in peace must help their neighbours to live in peace. Those who choose to live well must help others to live well, for the value of a life is measured by the lives it touches. And those who choose to be happy must help others to find happiness, for the welfare of each is bound up with the welfare of all.
The lesson for each of us is this: if we are to grow good corn, we must help our neighbours grow good corn.
It is possible to give away and become richer! It is also possible to hold on too tightly and lose everything. Yes, the liberal man shall be rich! By watering others, he waters himself.

This story reminds me of Sheila Solarin, read about her here and you would know why I admire her so much. Truly, it’s not about how long or short we live, it’s basically about the quality of lives we lived and the number of lives we touched with our kindness and good deeds. Like Sheila said ‘I would like to be remembered for hard work, honesty, some kindness here and there and an effort to make the best of the mental and physical equipment I was born with’.

Super excited. It’s closing time....
Enjoy the rest of your day J

Thanks a lot for reading!!!!

Wednesday, 25 July 2012

Mr. Welder and I

Sitting here in my own little world like I usually do. Breathing in the peace and demolishing the anger. Trying to block out the sound of the welding machine in the distance. Grrr, Grrr, the sound comes again, 15 minutes this time, non-stop...
Why is he making this sound I wonder? My eyes hissing at the unknown feet and inches man in the building 3 blocks away from me.


Why won't he make the sound? I thought again.
'Maybe he's fixing boyfriend's tyres' my heart said. Nah! don't think so.
What if he needs the money to pay his wife's medical fees? Hmm, at least he's working and not engaged in some vices.
Grrr, Grrr, the sound comes again piercing my thoughts and battling with my concentration. Grrr, Grrr....Again???....I think I need a new location...
Grandma says 'Accommodate others'...I guess I just did that :)


Song of the day: Schooling life by Beyonce



Remember, accommodate others...


Thanks a lot for visiting...Hugs!!!